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One Diaper Canada - Partnership

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Did You Know ... It costs over $3,000 to diaper a single child in disposable diapers in North America. For families who can’t afford these expenses, they may reuse dirty diapers, causing grave implications to a child’s health. This issue has been labelled “diaper need” and One Diaper Canada is at the forefront of tackling this concern. (source: http://onediaper.org/)

When I first read this simple statistic and began my research into the mission of the One Diaper Canada Organization, I knew I had to find away to help their vision. I've been fortunate enough to never worry in diapering my own children but it doesn't take away from parents who struggle with this basic necessity. We are currently in the works to host a fundraising event in October where 100% of proceeds will go directly towards closing the cloth diaper gap. Today, I wanted to introduce Cassandra and Lisa, the founders of One Diaper, below are their personal stories on being a mom and their advice to any new mom who may need a bit of inspiration today.

Founder Lisa - shares her view on parenting and life with little people

If I had any advice to give a fellow mom it would be to do whatever you feel is best for your family and don't judge others for doing the same. There aren't many "right" or "wrong" ways of doing things when it comes to parenting and you just do what works for you. When my son was very young, my husband and I both worked until late evening. We had a great schedule worked out but it meant that his bedtime wasn't until midnight. He slept until about 10:00 or 11:00 in the morning so he was getting very good sleep for a toddler but the amount of judgemental looks and questions we got about our schedule made us feel like we were doing something wrong. Because of that schedule, both my husband and I were able to spend time with our son before we went to work and still put him to bed at night which was a very important time for us as a family. 

If there is one thing I wish to remember about my children today it is my son's thirst for knowledge and his curiosity about everything. He wants to know the "who, what, where, when, why and how" about absolutely everything and he can never know too much about something. My daughter, I wish to remember how loving and cuddly she is. When she just leans over and gives me a kiss on the forehead or literally picks up my arm and puts it around her I can't help but be proud of the affection she shows the people she loves.

Founder Cassandra - shares her views on motherhood

If you have any advise to give a fellow mom, what would it be?  
I am a relatively new mom, so I certainly do not have everything figured out yet!  One thing that makes a big difference in my confidence as a mom and the relationship that I have with my kids is to intentionally spend a chunk (some days short, some days longer) of time sitting on the floor with my kids and playing with them or reading to them without any other distractions.  It is especially hard on busy days but it introduces a calmness and time of connection that we might not get a chance to have otherwise.

If there was one thing you wished to remember about your children today, what would it be? and why?!
Their little voices and their sweet smell!  They grow so fast, I know that's one thing I'll miss as they get older. 

Thank you Cassandra and Lisa for sharing a slice of your motherhood ! xo

 

Toronto Lifestyle Photography - mother and son

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As parents we feel our proudest when we see our children achieve and accomplish dreams they've drafted. The rush of emotion the moment you realize, this is it, they are independent and their voice in the world is now as powerful as yours sets your head spinning. So when Janet contacted me in the Spring to book a casual lifestyle session with her son, she was vividly wanting to celebrate the big accomplishments happening in her son's life. Erik had graduated university and began a career in the financial sector in Toronto. It was a turning point and the images that hung proudly on her walls today only showed Erik as little boy. In fact, the last photos she had of him and her where done when a dear friend had given her a gift certificate when Erik turned 13 years old. A new chapter in both their adult lives was taking shape and to remember their current home in Rosedale just steps away from the hip Bloor neighborhood was best fit for our backdrop. I hope this session inspires you that no matter how old your children get they are still the most important people in your life worth having photographs of.

Toronto Lifestyle Photography - Family Lynch

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How sweet are they?! I first met the Lynch family when Landon was 4 months old! Today he is 4 years old and is joined by his sweet sister Layla (9 months old) and I couldn't be happier to be invited back to capture them as a party of four :)

In "MOM'S WORDS" ....

1) What was your biggest fear in hiring me or even considering having a photographer capture your family? Did it come true, if not, what happened instead? How do you feel about the purchase now?

I had no concerns as I knew that you would be awesome with the kids and that you would be able to capture amazing moments of our family. Since Landon is 4 years old he's at an age where he listens and understands. Yes he can be silly but we loved having those moments captured as well since that is a part of who he is. Layla just smiles all the time so we knew she would be easy to photograph.  I also think timing is everything. First thing in the morning when everyone has had a good nights rest also helps. The photos are all so amazing! We couldn't be any happier with them!!!!  My favourite ones are with the kids sitting on the couch. Especially the one where Layla's mouth is open and Landon is making a silly face! 

2) What did you enjoy the most about your session and why?  

You are so gentle, calm and funny. You really helped Landon feel comfortable. We truly enjoy spending time with you and having you in our most intimate space. 

3) If you where to tell your best friend about your photography experience, what would you say?!  

That they have to hire you!!! I will always recommend you. With both sessions we have had we have been so happy. Again your gentle demeanor and your way of making everyone feel comfortable goes a long way! Thank you again!!!